Thinking is not all about being
serious. A common belief is that
laughter is the best medicine and at least one laugh a day is great – three
even better! I have really great medicine
in just watching my Henriettas every day, observing their seeming
self-importance as they run about their business of chasing bugs or getting in
on the “game”. The game is when we
scatter treats for them and one of the girls gets a bigger piece of bread; she
will run about trying to find a place to put it down so she can eat it but the
others of course are trying to get it away from her.
Remembering anecdotes from my
childhood, that of my parents or even those of my nieces and nephews will
always make me smile. My sister-in-law
Ronda has a real talent for keeping anecdotes alive and she is terrific at
telling the stories. I had written some
of the early stories down in a little notebook so I do have those and now I
really wish I had kept more of the stories Dad and Farmor told to us.
I do have one story about my
Farmor (grandmother) that is quite funny and a little scandalous. When Dad was still a teenager he was having a
chat with his mother when they happened to discuss writing. Farmor told a wonderful story and said she
had been thinking of writing it down.
Dad was all for encouraging her until she said something that made his
hair stand on end. She mentioned that
she had seen the movie but was sure no one would remember it. What?
“But Mor that is stealing.” He
said. She said “No one will remember the
movie, it’s so old.” Dad was shocked
that his mother had no notion that she would be committing plagiarism. Needless to say the book never got written.
Whenever I think of that story I laugh
not only because of Dad’s true consternation that his mother had no notion she
would be doing anything wrong but also the fact that she did not think it was
bad. That is so unlike my otherwise very honest, upright darling grandmother!
Foibles in our families is a true
garden of laughter. Just hone that sense
of humour because otherwise you may cry!
“The ordinary arts we practice every day at home are of more importance
to the soul than their simplicity might suggest.” Thomas Moore
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