In writing yesterday’s blog I struggled
somewhat with certain personalities and ended up scrapping them from my article
because they did not live up to my standard of greatness. People are flawed, this we know, but I do
have difficulty applauding one segment of a person’s life when another part of
their activism goes against the grain. I
will therefore make a personal admission that I WAS WRONG about something! Yes, I have been arguing with my brother
about the whole removal of statues thing – he is pro-removal and I was against
it (because of the art, feeling there was a way around destroying the art by
writing both sides of the story on a side panel). However, I now realize that if I am going to
split hairs about the Famous Five then I must concede on the other issue.
Now you may be wondering what I
have against some of the women of the Famous Five (I will keep them
nameless). Yes, they fought for women’s
right to vote and other equal rights for women.
However, looking into them more thoroughly I discovered some of them
worked on less noble causes, most especially the pushing through of legislation
that saw the systematic sterilization of thousands of people who were deemed “unfit,
degenerate, morons, etc.” Coincidentally
my brother had been telling me some things about eugenics the other day
(completely unrelated to my article and research) which shocked me. I had not realized that eugenics were still
on the books in 1972 here in Alberta!
Furthermore unwed mothers were
put into homes and then their babies were taken away from them without them
even seeing the baby, knowing the gender or knowing if the baby was alive or
dead. This may have been done with the mothers’
parents’ consent but the young mothers apparently had no rights since they were
under age. I did know that such things
happened but I did not realize that it was on such a large scale across the
country and that there were so many parents who essential abused their
daughters to such an extent. It is
rather unnerving to realize what self-righteousness can do to an otherwise
decent person.
While I find all of the above
appalling I wonder how many in today’s mad world think we should revert back to
these “ideals”? I shudder to think there
are any but I fear I am being a Pollyanna in that hope.
“I believe that we must maintain pride in the knowledge that the
actions we take, based on our own decisions and choices as individuals, link
directly to the magnificent challenge of transforming human history.” Daisaku Ikeda
Greatness is certainly to be found when we're speaking of people like Ghandi, Martin Luther Kong etc. but real greatness is also to be found among quite ordinary people. Some of the nurses that helped me and my damaged heart back to life, are truly great in their compassion for other people. Greatness is everywhere, if you know where to look for it. It is in the love of a little child, the confident eyes of a dear friend, the embrace of a mother, the firm and loving handshake of a father. Greatness is in your heart, whenever you treat other people with compassion, co-responsibility, love...
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